Baby safe wagon?

Here's the deal, me and my girlfriend are having a kid (super pumped about it) and I feel I have the perfect car for a daddy-mobile (the wagon).
My only problem is the suspension is jank as hell, the guy I got it from put Megan racing coil overs on it, slammed the front end, and barely lowered the rear. For my personal taste I don't like the way it rides and it's way too bumpy for a newborn.
So I'm looking at lowering springs and these are the questions I have,
Can I use aftermarket springs with stock struts?
The car will be daily driven 100 or more miles daily and I'm wanting to drop it no more than 2 inches (probably 1.5-1.75 to be safe)
What else can I buy to beef up the suspension do that it rides smooth?
Any feedback is welcome and I'd really like to hear from
Guys and/or ladies who have kids and drive a wagon, what else besides suspension did you do to make the car safer for a kid.
My only problem is the suspension is jank as hell, the guy I got it from put Megan racing coil overs on it, slammed the front end, and barely lowered the rear. For my personal taste I don't like the way it rides and it's way too bumpy for a newborn.
So I'm looking at lowering springs and these are the questions I have,
Can I use aftermarket springs with stock struts?
The car will be daily driven 100 or more miles daily and I'm wanting to drop it no more than 2 inches (probably 1.5-1.75 to be safe)
What else can I buy to beef up the suspension do that it rides smooth?
Any feedback is welcome and I'd really like to hear from
Guys and/or ladies who have kids and drive a wagon, what else besides suspension did you do to make the car safer for a kid.
Comments
As for the newborn stuff, if you have a nice baby seat then don't worry about it. My wife drove our slammed wagon around on some very nice TEIN Type HA's during most of my daughters first year and they were rock bottom, on some pretty stiff settings. My daughter spoke both English and German fluently by the age of 2.5 so I don't think the slammed wagon affected her at all
Hope this helps a bit.
As for suspension, I'd definitely agree on aftermarket shocks to go with your lowering springs. The good news is, if those Megan racing are in decent shape, you can still sell them used and recoup most of the money you spent on a spring/shock combo.
Or can I go with high end springs and standard struts?
Also, just in case, my daughter was always in the front seat of the car because the seat belt in the back wouldn't fit around the mounting points. My wife also said she never felt unsafe in the car with our daughter in the front seat, or ever felt that the car was unsafe itself. Figured I would give you feedback straight from MOM herself.