major lowering problems, HELP, please

I appologize for any thing I am doing incorrectly up front, this is my first time in any forum. I am having suspension problems on my 90 wagon. It was all stock then i put on GC sleeves with stock shx they bottomed out like crazy. I tried Tokico blues w/ the GC sleeves and ext top hats, the a arm was hitting the body in the fender well. I removed the ext top hats and tried it tonight with the factory top hats and the a arm still hits the body. I also installed camber kits and slid them all the way back hoping the arm would clear the body but it still hits. The car is on factory 13x5 rims with 175-70-13 tires and it is now only 1 1/2" lower than factory. The shx are for 89-91 crx/civic. The arms are hitting the body as soon as i let the jack down. I am getting tired of this problem very quickly this is the third time i have changed everything and now have around 26 hrs invested in this and it is still not right and not driveable. I also have been on this site for about 4 months now reading very different things about lowering these cars. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Stock upper a arms are best for slammed setups. Mine is pretty low, only hits the tower on big bumps.
i recommend a set of these... http://www.robearracing.com/pd_revo_sta ... ic_crx.cfm
when i bought them they were $160, 4 years ago.. and still good!